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Sunday, April 1, 2012

Self-Realization & Self-Made Polarity Experiences


Lately I was writing about my experience with people and groups of people throughout my life - and how I ended-up isolating myself and existing in judgment, which was in essence only reflecting my own self-judgment and mental polarity creations -




See the blog here: http://bellalive.multiply.com/journal/item/73/Relationships_as_Limitation_Bubbles_Fear_as_Self-Abuse


What is fascinating is that our 'experiences' are 'merely' the result of the equated definitions, conclusions and beliefs we accept throughout our lives: which makes it all but a program which, once realized, can be redefined in self-responsibility and self-respect –
thus changing our patterns of participation in this world in a way that will bring forth dignity for life.

Looking at my experience of how I perceived people and how I experienced being perceived by others, I see that one can in self-honesty look into and investigate what 'expectations' are connected to such experiences, meaning -
what does one expect people to think, how does one expect people to react to who and how one is, what does one fear as a reaction/feedback from others, what does one desire as a reaction/feedback from others.

Writing about this, one will see that one’s expectations emerge from one’s own self-created and/or accepted definitions of oneself, be it self-judgment and 'negative'-charged ideas (which would reflect that which one fears as feedback from others) or 'positive'-charged ideas about oneself (which would reflect that which one desires as feedback/'validation' from others).

So, this shows that what we think people think about us or what we perceive people experience toward us = is actually in fact our own mind. It is showing us what we ourselves have defined, created, accepted about ourselves - our fears and desires: both are polarity points that indicate self-separation, from the perspective that
- the 'negative' points one fears being seen/perceived as: are points that one has judged of/about oneself and thus separated from oneself, instead of transcending the points within and as self-equality
- the 'positive' points one desires as 'feedback', 'validation' or 'gift' from others: are points that one has not yet accepted within oneself as oneself but has separated oneself from, thinking and believing one needs to 'gain' or 'attain' them in order to be 'more'/'better'/'higher'.

Such points/ideas of 'more'/'better'/'higher' are showing us that we've actually defined self as the opposite-polarity ('less'/'worse' etc -the 'negative') and we're therefore now seeking and desiring the 'positive'.
So here we can see the trap of polarity within and as our mental 'values' - the things we place value on, in separation from ourselves as life.




So, in fact, until we start seeing and realizing what we (each one of us) have created as one's mind, what others will reflect to us will be our own ideas, fears and desires – and therefore looking at others and the feedback we get from others: we are basically seeing ourselves.

And THAT is where one can start with investigating the mind-polarities that exist within oneself as ideas, images, value-judgments etc, to start purifying one's (self-)definitions, removing the polarity, freeing oneself from the trap, and working towards a point of self-equality and oneness as life -

where the value is self here as life in the context of practical considerations from the starting-point of self-support as actual living, to no longer be subject to mental images, definitions and ideas about self and the world.



SELF-REAL-I-ZATION:
We are what we make real as ourselves -

and thus, self-real-I-zation is a space-time process as we dis-cover ourselves. Man Know Thyself - a process in time which entails several steps:

-seeing and recognizing what it is we have made real as ourselves and our self-experience in this world

-seeing and recognizing what the reality of our experience / what the participation in our patterns perpetuate in this world in the greater scheme

-making a decision as to whether or not such creation is worthy of life, whether or not what we've made real as ourselves in fact supports us as life

-forgiving our creation as ourselves and taking the responsibility to transform the equations of our creation, to stop the patterns of abuse and inequality/polarity and align our practical-living-participation to what's best for all/life, which is also what's best for us individually

-envisioning the practical correction- and transformation-steps required to make ourselves real as self-willed equals of life, as dignified individuals and responsible creators

-making ourselves real by walking that solution/correction/purification into beingness:
and through this we are bringing forth the transformation of our creation as humanity toward what is best for all as life in equality and oneness




Investigate further on self-realization at http://desteni.org
- especially in relation to self and relationships check out the new course: Agreements - Redefining Relationships

Further Support:
Self-Image and Fear of Others
Blame and Animosity
Virus Free Mind
The Emotional and Feeling Body-System and Physical Energy-Alignments

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Self-Honesty & Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite

The Elite?


If you are reading this – you ARE the elite. I am the elite. All of us who have a certain roof over our head, a certain access to water and electricity, a certain access to money and an income that ensures everything one needs for a dignified living in this physical reality: WE are the ones that determine the evolution of the system, the evolution of life on planet earth – through everything that we do and sadly also through everything that we don’t do.

The ones in less fortunate positions such as famine, war, starvation, forced labor, are all enslaved to conditions they have no power to change, because they are cast out of the system we all daily participate in, they have no voice in this world, no vote to make their voice heard, and often no vocabulary to formulate the actual state of affairs they are being subjected to.

It is therefore up to the rest of us to find it within us to stand up for LIFE, and that includes every living thing on this existence, from the smallest to the biggest; to find it within us to realize our responsibility by the mere fact that WE RAE HERE, born into conditions that give us a relative power to move things, to voice our position, to make a stand and make sure that how we live and co-exist is practically bringing-forth a better life, a dignified life for ALL.

To find this will of life within us, self-honesty is required and practical common sense – to see who it is we are, how we came to be, and how it is that we are in fact creating this world; and to stop creating from a starting-point of fear, self-interest and separation, and instead start creating in awareness, in the realization that we exist in the context of life and that life is interdependent.

We have done already great harm to ourselves, each-other and our home planet – but this should not stop us from standing-up and stating “till here and no further”; it should not stop us from finding practical ways to stop the accepted ways of the world and transform the current system within and without into a living-expression of what is best for all – after all, what is best for all, is best for you and me.


This is obviously not going to be a quick fix, nor an easy journey. There is much re-education to be done in terms of freeing ourselves from the conditioned survival fear that keeps us existing against each other; freeing ourselves from the mind control that is being thrown at us from the moment of birth and really ask ourselves the question: what would we have liked to learn and experience as children coming into this world, how would the opportunities to explore and express ourselves look like – and what practical infrastructure would a system require to in fact provide the children with such quality of life; what will it take to change ourselves in such a way that we break the cycles of abuse and separation, that we stop history from repeating and really, truly, create a new world – for real, for ALL.




Yes - we require an entirely new system. At the same time however, we require to realize that –as with everything in existence–  it all starts with self. We are the building blocks of this world, as this world exists through and as the relationships we entertain – in the smallest of details.


Check out the series Self-Awareness Steps for the Elite – and make use of the tools offered to assist yourself toward self-honesty and a dignified existence.
Allow yourself to question self-interest and our fear-based existence, allow yourself to see yourself in a bigger context: the context of life, the context of oneness and equality as creation. 
Watch the following interview for a taste of what such a process entails:





Self-Honesty

I've been walking this process for more than four years now. Self-honesty entails the willingness to see/ recognize/ reveal the 'hidden motives' on the basis of which our beliefs, fears, desires, self-definitions are created/ adopted/ accepted. Self-honesty also entails to see the patterns we participate in (mental, emotional, behavioral) and understand/realize the cause/ beginning/ origin and effect/ outflow/ consequence - to ultimately take self-responsibility to change self in a way that no more (self-)abuse is allowed. Self-honesty is the process of revealing to myself where and how I am being self-dishonest, where and how I deceive or sabotage myself - to then investigate the self-corrective/ self-purifying practical steps required to stop - and 'transform' myself into a being I can live with. That is in the end the ultimate 'question' life confronts us with: "Can you live with yourself in the face of life, in the face of all that is here?" - "Have you stood up for yourself, have you stood up for life - What impact have you/ has your participation had on life as a whole?"

The main tools I utilize to work on points I am faced with throughout my everyday life are writing and self-forgiveness, which in few words could be described as: self-introspection, writing out the points/patterns, investigating what is 'behind' the particular thoughts/ emotions/ beliefs/ (self-)definitions, see the consequences for self/life, see what I am allowing within self/the world through my acceptances per implication, and make the choice to stop/ let-go/ forgive myself.
From here, what is required is a 'new script' which self determines in self-honesty: How do I want to 'purify'/'correct' myself in this regard? What is acceptable and what is unacceptable for life/ freedom/dignity? How do I want to live/apply the change practically? Self-honesty from here would be to direct myself towards/as self-change in the very moments where the particular pattern I worked with comes-up or gets triggered again. That is where I then 'test myself' in reality, that is where I 'prove' to myself that I am in fact taking self-responsibility, that I can in fact trust my word, that I am in fact directing myself to live as best for life, as best for all, of which i am equally part of.

Obviously this is a huge 'subject' and as I said I have been walking this 'process' for many years already. This started when I came across Desteni (I had been following a 'spiritual' path up to that point and was busy focusing on the 'positive' and suppressing/denying the 'negative' within self/the world) and that is when I started to participate on the forums and write and communicate with others that were also busy exploring life and themselves and searching for 'truth';
I started exploring the principle of equality and oneness, understanding polarity and how it works and how we trap ourselves and each-other within such system (within and without), and discussing practical solutions for self and the world so that we may finally make this world and life something that is no longer abusive/deceptive/exploiting; something that is worth living and worth leaving to our children without regret, without fear, without harm.




What is most fascinating is that, although this process started as a self-realization process for the individual, we concluded that we cannot be preoccupied with self only while the world is burning and half the population is left to starve; that we must first create the structural support and transform the system(s) of our world in a way that each living being can have a dignified life - then all are free to explore self and all have actual real choice to be and become who we truly are, and do what we really enjoy doing - without the enslavement of the current money-system that determines our choices and decides who lives and who dies.

Therefore at the moment we are focusing on bringing-forth a new equality system, while of course each one individually continues to walk the process of self-honesty, taking self-responsibility, developing self-trust, purifying ourselves and our relationships, and establishing the self-will from which emerge the freedom as we break free from the chains of 'old' and ingrained habits and patterns of this system consciousness that is based on fear, self-interest and basically war/competition/winners and losers. A win-win solution is possible for life. And that is the process of life as oneness and equality, within as without.


Check out the open forum at http://forum.desteni.org - much is shared there and people/we utilize the forum to write, share, discuss and support ourselves and each-other in self-honesty and practical common sense.

Check out the Equal Money website. The website will change in about a week's time with an interactive first page where people will be able to vote and comment on the goals and policy development thus far on the Equal Money System. There will also be an Equal Money wiki. Make sure you get involved, make sure your voice counts for what is best for all!





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Tuesday, March 20, 2012

GOOD & EVIL are ONE | Proof that you Can't Trust the Positive Feeling


We are trapped in a oneness of polarity, both within ourselves as the mind consciousness we’ve been cultivating as humanity over generations as well as in the outer world as the world systems we’ve been developing, accepting and allowing – all in the name of profit.

Profit itself is a polarity construct. For some to have profit, others must have loss.
Is it really so difficult to consider that there is another way?
Or is man so brainwashed with fear that only self-interest prevails at the cost of life itself?


Take the example of a rapist or any psychopath / sociopath for that matter (watch some episodes of Criminal Minds to get a real good idea on the psychology of a criminal profile.) The crime produces a positive experience within the criminal. But to ‘get there’, a negative act was necessary, for whatever reasons: to justify for an experience of lack or injustice the criminal experience within themselves, to take revenge or to balance-out an inferiority complex etc.

The motivation is the seeking /the desire /the pursuit of for instance revenge, justice, power. The idea of achieving that goal and getting that satisfaction is the positive charge that feeds the criminal mind. And the negative action as for instance rape, murder, bullying or any kind of abuse is the starting-point for the creation of the ‘positive’.


Or take the example of abusers that try and control you with fear, whereby they get a ‘positive’ boost from being able to abuse and give you a ‘negative’ experience, which makes them feel ‘more’, ‘stronger’, ‘powerful’. Isn’t this evidence that the positive feeling cannot be trusted?

Fascinatingly enough, the abuser, the bully will often use the same label to induce fear in another that was used by others to frighten them when they were kids for instance. So if someone calls you a faggot or a prick or fat-ass, you can be sure the word thy use is something that either has ‘hurt’ them (=their ego) before or a word they fear, or if someone was fat and was bullied about it and now they’ve lost the extra pounds, it could be they are gaining satisfaction as ‘positive’ charge through hitting you with the ‘negative’, in this case the label ‘fat-ass’.
So here the ‘negative’ action of calling you ‘fat-ass’ is creating the ‘positive’ feeling of satisfaction they’re getting through the comparison they draw in the mind. Now this may be an ‘innocent’ example, however the mechanics of how this works is the same in all cases of abuse and separation.


“The reason why the negative is so powerful, is that the negative is the creator of the positive. The positive is the charge and the negative is the action/starting-point of creation.”


So –
Let’s now look at this from the other side of the polarity more in depth. Let’s take the ‘positive’ example of a lightworker, a positive-thinker or a spiritual person. The creation of a lightworker, a positive-thinker or a spiritual person as a ‘positive’ point has its roots in the perception of for instance this world as ‘negative’.
The lightworker, the positive-thinker or the spiritual person did not look at this world and see it for what it is to understand why things are how they are and how everything within that functions. The lightworker, the positive-thinker or the spiritual person looked at the world and had a ‘negative’ judgment about it, which to deny / suppress / ignore one then uses concepts of ‘light and love’, ‘positive thinking’ or ‘spirituality’ to feel better about oneself, when in fact these ‘methods’ do not have any impact on the world as such, or even any impact really on the person itself other than perhaps making the person comfortably numb for a moment, until reality bashes in.

“See - in spite of being positive - one negative point will destroy all the positive effort.”


It's time to GET REAL – only so will we be able to bring forth REAL SOLUTIONS




Check out the following Freedom Blogs:

Light, Love and Harmony

Is Love something you can Touch

Spirituality and Responsibility

Lifting the Veil to See the true spiritual path



Some related V-logs I made:
















“We are a world created through failure - the failure to actually CARE FOR LIFE. We will pay for it, but that must not detract us from creating what is best for all.”




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For more insights and perspectives read Spirituality Under the Microscope - Volume 1

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Quotes used in this blog are by Bernard Poolman

Sunday, March 11, 2012

[2012] Is LOVE something you can TOUCH

Love in this world has been defined through the consumerism consciousness of self-interest (see the documentary The Century of Self for an extensive background on the development of ‘modern civilization’ as we know it today), and definitions of love has been impulsed onto us through the different media in an idealizing manner, resulting into various consequences in terms of what we think of love, how we struggle to experience love, and what illusions we tend to create as ‘love’ in our attempt to deny the physical actuality of ourselves and this existences, our attempt to suppress the ‘negative’, the suffering, the ‘dark side’ of ourselves and this world, our attempt to avoid taking responsibility for life.


We have become ‘happiness machines’ and ‘love’ has become the drug which we use to either seek the bliss of enlightened self-interest or to become comfortably numb.

So – love has become an idea, a concept, an illusion of grandeur and profoundness, when in fact our practical physical living in this world gives no evidence of love, no evidence of a loving reality within ourselves and our world, this existence.


How can love exist in a world where separation, self-interest, war, conflict, rape, starvation, exploitation prevail?
We fight in the name of love, we hate in the name of love, we kill in the name of love.


How have we missed to make love practical?

What are the mental projections and concepts of ‘love’ that we’ve deluded ourselves with – to such an extent that we’ve lost all practical connection to reality as ourselves and this world?
We can see definitions of love in all fields of our consumer consciousness field: media, movies, money-system, education, religion, spirituality...

You will also note that those that are possessed by ‘love’ will refuse to consider anything else but that love is the answer -- and there will be no practical way they can explain how love will change the world and regardless of this obvious oversight, their egos will spew one word like magic poison: ‘love will heal the world’ -- they should watch the news to see that the only love on the Telly is the love the corporations are promoting as love for their products. [1]




How do we redefine LOVE to be a living word that will in fact change the experience of ourselves as humanity, as a whole, as existence?

Love is: to not give up on yourself or others/existence - but to be willing to stand no matter what, to not accept or allow anything less than what's best for all; and be willing to take the risks/actions necessary to get this done. [2]







When we look at the practical-living of love, it is not in the words “I love you”, it is not within one person making another person feel ‘special’ or ‘wanted’ or ‘desired’, it is not the stroking of your ego, it is not accepting each-other the way we are because that would imply that love is a lock-down of personalities so that they never change as they have found the point that accept ‘just the way they are’ and therefore they will not expand, they will not grow, they will not consider anything else since the ego/personality is ‘satisfied’. That is not love.

Love is NOT an experience - it is a living reality you participate in with another being and existence as a whole. [3]




Looking at love in the context of relationships we can see that the point of love has been extremely sexualized in all aspects. One cannot possibly ‘have’/’get’ love without participating in comparison, competition, jealousy. Further, obsession, possessiveness and fear of loss play a role in ‘keeping’ the love one ‘has’. Seduction, manipulation, deception are further phenomena in the context of ‘love’ in this world.

We sell ourselves for love in all possible ways. Love becomes the context where we compromise ourselves just to ‘have’ that little bit of attention and acceptance that we mostly don’t give to ourselves. Within that, touch has become a tool of hidden messages and manipulation, as beings do not actually get to know each-other and self beyond the boundaries of the personality traits we present ourselves as; we do not learn to actually communicate, support and assist self and each-other to express, expand, flourish.

Can you allow yourself to be touched by another without it becoming immediately a sexual projection?

Why can people not touch each other in support to just convey ‘I am here with you’ = in the touch? [4]




How do we redefine TOUCH to be a living word that will in fact change the experience of ourselves as living beings, and through that change the experience of our whole existence?

Touch as the living word is how a mother and father will hold and touch a new born baby or how you would hold a puppy when you bring it home... [5]

Touch as the connection/embracing of a physical-manifestation/ body for a moment sharing the contact of being here together with each other [6]




Photography by Marlen

Touch is the evidence of I am Here.

But what am I here as?
Our touch has been throughout our lives coloured with all kinds of symbols, depending on what we have gone through and experienced, the relationships we’ve had and the ones we’ve witnessed. It’s like we’ve lost touch with our own touch, our own physical, our own presence, as our presence has been and is being defined through the consciousness of our conditioned mind – the mind that exists in polarities of fear and desire, thus: we never express directly, but through patterns of the mind.
The same with Touch.

It is a challenge for all human beings to let go of the conditioned existence we have accepted as who we are and get back to self, to the simplicity of I am Here, to the purity of touch – Touch without hidden agendas, without future projections, without the need to control the outcome, without the expectation to get something out of it.

Simplicity in the direct communication as I am here – the straightforwardness of pure touch can be the greatest comfort in this world ...and perhaps a way to change it!


Give up sainthood, renounce wisdom,
And it will be a hundred times better for everyone.

Give up kindness, renounce morality,
And men will rediscover filial piety and love.

Give up ingenuity, renounce profit,
And bandits and thieves will disappear.

These three are outward forms alone; they are not sufficient in themselves.
It is more important
To see the simplicity,
To realize one's true nature,
To cast off selfishness
And temper desire.

-         - Lao Tzu


At Desteni we walk the process of transforming the conditioned existence of ourselves into self-directive living through self-will in self-honesty – to no longer be puppets on the strings of the mind, but to stand equal to and one with the entirety of self and take responsibility for who we are in every moment, with every word, thought and deed, in everything we participate in and everything we touch.

Let's make Love something we can Touch
something all can see, live and practically experience as the fabric of our existence in all possible ways!



[1] [3] [4] [5] Bernard Poolman
[7] Lao Tzu: Tao Te Ching

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Friday, February 24, 2012

2012 Reasons for a Higher Purpose

Ever considered that you’re doing the ‘right’ thing for the WRONG reasons ???
Ever claimed you’re doing something for NO reason ???
Ever dared doing the ‘wrong’ thing for the RIGHT reasons ???
Ever realized that you’re reasoning away the actuality of reality ???



What is REASON?
Our reasons are always representing our starting-point, the beginning of a decision, a movement, a step we take.
Therefore, there is always a reason for doing something or moving toward a certain direction, even if that reason may not be in one’s conscious awareness.

Since the REASON is always the beginning, this implies that seeing, knowing and understanding the reason – the beginning, the starting-point – we are able to see and understand the end – the result, the outflow.
‘Beginning and end’ is equal to ‘cause and effect’.
What effect do we cause through who we are in every moment?
This is a reality of consequence.
Consequences are the outflows of who we are, the result we effect through the cause of our being.

Everything in this existence exists within and through relationships. Everything we do, every step has an outflow, a result, an impact – on the whole. That is how we are creating this reality, this existence, this world as we know it.
The abuser does not exist by itself – everything exists in relationships, and for that we are all responsible.
The system (as we’ve created/accepted/allowed it) creates the abuser: through the support of self-interest, competition and secrecy – constantly re-creating inequality, comparison, greed, despair. Who are the real criminals in the face of life? The one who steals food to survive or the white collar that works to maintain a system of separation in the name of profit?



The earth provides everything all, but man created a concept ‘scarcity’ and exploits what is here in the name of profit – all the while billions suffer.
The current system offers many distractions, resulting in the shifting of responsibility and blame. Such comments prove how easily people get distracted by ‘sensationalism’ and do not see the whole picture. Then one will quickly jump into conclusions about who is to blame, all the while one is accepting and giving permission for the system to exist as it does = in a way that supports/tolerates inequality and the exploitation of life.



Many people search for PURPOSE in life, and the current con system of consumerism and consumption is good at selling us a purpose you can buy into and follow, a purpose that will give us the feeling we’re ‘doing the right thing’ or ‘getting somewhere’, a feeling that we’re ‘important’, that we are ‘someone’, that we are ‘good’; all the while we are basically maintaining the world ‘as we know it’ and supporting the survival of a persona in self-interest – which is basically the system: where what we do is motivated by self-interest in the name of profit (whether profit is defined as actual money and riches or a ‘god’ and god’s grace or the ‘pursuit of happiness’ and ‘personal freedom’ – in any case we are in fact always enslaved to the whole system, and half the world suffers starvation and despair as a result of this survival system we all participate in day in day out.

When people make decisions about who they are and how they exist – whether consciously or unconsciously – they then tend to create the reasoning that ‘explains’ ‘why’ they do what they do, ‘why’ they are how they are. People reason about intellectually, in the mind, to not have to see the actual REASONS for this existence – the world as we know it – in the physical: this reality we all share.

When we however start investigating our actual reasons, the actual starting-point of everything we do, say, think, participate in and how this reality functions: we get to an understanding of ourselves and the world and what the relationships we entertain support or create or give permission for to exist here.

Every moment, every word, every deed – who we are and what we participate in – is a piece of the puzzle of the things to come. The problem within this is that we’ve been manifesting this world in ignorance, and then we claim that ignorance is ‘bliss’. We’ve been creating this world in unawareness, through our secret minds, our fears, our denials, our desires.

As a representation of the mind within, we have created without a metaphysical system – the current money system – through which we attempt to manage the actual physical reality; with atrocious results as we can see all around.



As we get to an understanding about the mechanics of this reality, and as we get to self-honesty about the REASONS of our existence, our behaviour, our decisions, our definitions of ourselves and the world: what emerges is the realization that we can free ourselves from the predetermined ‘fate’ we are born into and able to determine our ‘reasons’ in awareness; clear our starting-point, re-evaluate how we exist – re-define and re-form what we call ‘life’.

As we realize that every here moment forms the shape of the things to come, we can see that we can stop existing for purposes given to us by the system to keep the system alive while we abdicate our power and leave ourselves and this world to ‘fate’; and are able to LIVE HERE in every moment in awareness of our role in the context of the whole, which is LIFE.

What ‘Purpose’ is can be redefined: from a projected ‘feel good’-picture that serves the ego in disregard of the whole – to a practical living in self-determination of ‘who I am’ in every moment in the context of LIFE as Best for All, thus supporting and bringing forth the utmost potential for all life.

It is vital to UNDERSTAND life – and start LIVING ...instead of being literally driven by preordained and conditioned ideas about life.



Is there at all a RIGHT reason for ‘doing things’?
Looking at this question from a system perspective we see that ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ really doesn’t make much difference in the system, because what is ‘right’ for one is often ‘wrong’ for another, and within the system each one is encouraged to promote their ‘own’ beliefs, their ‘own’ truth, their ‘own’ philosophy about things. What is not seen is that in any case all of this serves the protection of one’s personal ‘pursuit of happiness’ and the ‘justification’ of the things we do in the name of self-interest.

Never is the Whole considered, never do we see all points or consider the outflows, the consequences and the practical implications our participation has for everything and everyone else – for that which we call ‘life’, for the existence we are creating /accepting /allowing on our planet.
Looking in self-honesty at this world, which is a reflection of who we are, we can definitely see that what we’re doing /accepting /allowing cannot be justified!

We, humanity, have no excuses for what we’re doing to ourselves and each-other.



From the perspective of life, there is no ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ – there is only ‘who we are’ and the consequences thereof.

As we come to an understanding of the ‘bigger picture’, as we get to the humbleness that comes with the insight of the atrocity of this existence and our individual involvement within it all, we can look at the point of ‘right reasons’ and ‘wrong reasons’ from a very simplistic, practical perspective, through which we are actually able to remove the systematic polarity definition of ‘right’ and ‘wrong’ and place the question in the context of LIFE:

Within the context of life, ‘wrong’ would be all that which is an expression of self-dishonesty.
Self-dishonesty being our self-interest, our separation from life that based in the consciousness of fear and greed, comparison, jealousy, competition, fear of loss. In self-dishonesty we realize ourselves as systematic robots that function as conditioned happiness machines programmed to seek the jackpot whatever it takes while we are successfully distracted with bright shiny things to not see the whole picture and the role each one is actually playing within the Whole; to not see ourselves as creators and this existence as our creation – our responsibility.

Within the context of life, ‘right’ would be that which is an expression of self-honesty.
Self-honesty being the point where we see things for what they really are and face ourselves and everything we have created /accepted /allowed /given permission for to exist within ourselves and our world; realizing ourselves as life, as equal creations of the substance we all come from, the substance we all return to, and as creators of this existence on this one planet we all share. It is simple common sense that Best for All would be to live and apply our equality as life in the utmost potential and make it available to all equally in all ways; making sure that the systems we create to manage our ‘time’ between life and death – both on the small scale (our character, our relationships, our interactions in every moment) and on the bigger scale (our systems of education, administration, distribution of resources) – support ALL LIFE EQUALLY.

SELF-HONESTY is the ‘path’ – the Living Self Choice – of stopping the limitations we have accepted and allowed within and about ourselves and our world; removing the systematic controls that have us trapped in a bipolar consciousness that keeps history repeating; transforming the equations of inequality and enslavement into common sense solutions of dignity and self-empowerment in equality – so that we may be able to re-create ourselves and our existence, this world, in a way that support ourselves and each-other as LIFE.

Friday, February 10, 2012

2012 EXCLUSIVE: The Untold History of ATLANTIS and Why it should Be No SECRET

What is it about the story of ATLANTIS
Is there a Secret that has been kept from us? Or has everything always been right in front of our 'I' ...?

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My review: FASCINATING!
Why?

The basic point or essence I gathered thus far through all the interviews through the interdimensional portal is that the current enslavement has only been possible through the acceptance of the enslaved - through the abdication of responsibility; and perhaps it was in fact about missing a moment, a moment which could have been directed in full presence to what was best for all, as the Atlanteans have always done and applied as who they are (working with sound on a planet of sound and in awareness of the harmony of and as existence, as the being in this interview shares).
The being also shares about the purpose they were realizing within and through their existence, namely to maintain the harmony and equilibrium of existence as a whole, realizing and experiencing as themselves the common source as substance of all of existence as one, despite there having existed different planets with different races from the perspective of form, manifestation, skills and abilities. There existed a connection within and among the whole of existence in its different manifestations, all on some level aware of the common sense, the common origin, the substance from which everything and everyone emerged and existed as. Within that oneness there was equality.

So when and how did the separation begin?
This must’ve been the point where self-interest emerged and perhaps the question is why there was an acceptance/permission given for this to exist. If we as humans are the result of/as the enslaved Atlanteans, then surely it is time to acknowledge that our suffering derives from the fact that we’ve literally lost our common sense and missed a  moment of self-honest directive.

Could this be ‘the missing link’?

It could certainly be the time to stop blaming ‘god’ or ‘reptilians’ or ‘the system’ for our enslavement and ask ourselves the question: where are we missing the point? Where are we missing ourselves? Where did we go wrong? Where did we miss a moment of self-honest directive in the sense of the substance that we had realized as our common source , the origin of all as what we all had emerged from and existed as – the common sense that is best for all.

When did we stop BEING the source?
And how do we become the source – become who we really are when we are free.




The problem I see with the current consciousness as it has ‘evolved’, is that it is based in mental, projected and separated dimensions, separation being the key word here.

The human exists in separation from everything and even from itself. It then spends a lifetime developing ‘mechanisms’ and ‘approaches’ trying to ‘connect’, but it does that within separation, within seclusion, as if the world, as if life, was ‘out there’ somewhere, but not ‘here’. (The accepted system obviously re-creates a human that is set on survival-mode, and that is one of the main points we are able, if willing, to change within our current global reality – see EqualMoney.org)

The human separates itself into subconscious and unconscious dimensions and projects its consciousness both inward (suppression, denial, ‘powerlessness’, questions) as well as outward (the seeking of fulfilment/’power’, the yearning for ‘god’/‘salvation’, answers). The separated parts of self often seem to ‘individualize’ and give a certain feedback, either in dreams and nightmares or in conscious emotional/mental possessions and obsessions, moods and outbursts that come seemingly ‘out of nowhere’.

The human attempts to understand itself and existence through mental/conscious investigation: through the interpretation of the subconscious and unconscious dimensions, which however inevitably takes place within the bounds and through the filters of the conscious mind. Thus the human fails to get to oneness and equality within and as itself and with life. This then results to the human attempting to validate and/or justify its existence and seek ‘life’ through projected ‘spiritual’ theories in the quest for meaning/purpose/’value’/’power’.
All this within a perceptual reality of separation, hence also the hierarchical tendencies of the essence of control.



The fascinating consideration this point leads to is:

For a perceived ‘need’ for (or even the concept of) ‘control’ to exist, the essence of ‘control’ must have existed. For the essence of the need for CONTROL to exist, FEAR must have existed. Is this the question about which was first – the chicken or the egg? Maybe, maybe not.

It certainly is a question each and every single being is able to practically explore and investigate as to the implications for existence – cause and effect, time and space, in the context of the harmony and the freedom of existence /the world /humanity as a whole.

It is also a question to investigate as to the implications of one’s individual, personal existence and self-experience. How is fear and control existent within me? What are the interplays? What are the patterns? What are the mental thought constructs through which I try to reason with such points? What am I participating in? What am I accepting and allowing?

Does the existence of fear imply the concepts of ‘inferiority’ - ‘superiority’? Does the existence of the concept of control imply the acceptance of the same concept: ‘inferiority’ – ‘superiority’? Has our mind consciousness perhaps in its evolution come up with ways to ‘justify’ the separation, to ‘justify’ (as in ‘protect’) its perceived ‘uniqueness’ against the rest of existence? Has our mind consciousness perhaps in its evolution come up with ways to ‘justify’ this existence of control and enslavement because only so ‘it’ can continue existing as it does – ‘explaining’ its fear as ‘real’, as ‘necessary’, as ‘justified’? Has our mind consciousness perhaps ‘individualized’ itself in separation from the entirety of who we really are as life, given itself fake values based on concepts of ‘power’ and ‘grandeur’ and is now driving us to each our individual ‘desires’, ‘free choice’, bliss’ in pretended or dumbed-down ignorance?

A simple question opens the door to some interesting answers:

Does our individual mind consciousness place itself before what is best for all? Yes.
Does our individual mind consciousness drive us through patterns of emotional and mental reactions to the decisions we make in our reality? Yes.
Does our individual mind consciousness bring up fear that we seem to be unable to control, direct, overcome? Yes.
So – is the enemy perhaps within?!
ENE-ME : INNER-ME

How did we get here? How did we get to exist in the Here we have manifested as Humanity in this space and time continuum?

This whole issue with us – with ourselves individually and humanity as a whole – demands an existential approach to reality to be resolved.

An existential approach would be a holistic approach that would require the transcendence of separation, within and without.



That is what we are busy with at Desteni; that is what we come together for. We each stand alone, as each one has to stand-up for oneself – no one can do it for another; yet we walk together, we work together, we see ourselves and each-other as equals of life and explore ways of living that equality, ways of making it a living-reality for all existence.

We realize it is ourselves and our relationships in our world that we require to change, the mechanics of co-existence in its practicality. We realize we have to dignify our word as the living word and become someone that can be trusted, someone that trust themselves, someone whose word is sound. We realize that this is established through self-honesty and the practical walking of self-forgiveness and self-correction / self-actualization, to no longer be simply products of our environment (an environment/system that has for eons of time propagated isms and schisms and supported an existence of separation, fear and control) but self-willed equals of life, living our inheritance to what is best for all in every moment.


This is how the Atlanteans went about with what they understood as their inheritance, their origin, their existence. They saw themselves as the Guardians of existence. And that is how I see myself as Destonian today, as that is what Desteni stands for: the Oneness and Equality of Life in all practical ways of our co-existence.

Today we can at least utilize the evolution of consciousness and the realizations that the inversion of karma and the acceleration of time – the lifting of the veils – bring: to be/become the guardians of life. Because life is the value that has been exploited, disregarded, degraded in the name of gods and profits.

The value of life is life – and that is the highest value in actuality, common in all and everything that is here breathing the same air. How can we keep competing against each-other and define ourselves by our differences?!



Why was the history of Atlantis kept secret? Well, one thing is certain: there hadn’t been an actual ‘opening’ for the actual story to come through.

For some it may be worth investigating all the myths humanity has about Atlantis – written and told by human beings. Also investigate all religious books – they too were written by human beings. How were the messages misformed, misinterpreted? What were people mis-informed about? What may have been the purpose of the Myths, the books? What were they promising, how have they been impulsing humanity, how were they ‘educating’? How come religious and spiritual leaders are rich and powerful in this world system?

For the first time, another kind of sharing is possible. I'd suggest to everyone to hear the story of Atlantis as one may find something about oneself and one's world view that one hasn't yet considered. Investigate the Thousands of interviews and Tens of Thousands of Articles and Documents through the portal, made public by the Desteni group through the internet since 2007.




When I first came across Desteni it was through Youtube and the online forums.
What made an immediate and strong impression on me the moment I came across Desteni was that each and every point taken on, presented, given perspective on: would always be brought to a concluding point showing the necessity and inevitability of SELF-RESPONSIBILITY. That is the core message of Desteni: Stop waiting, stop hoping, and take life in your hands by standing-up for self, for life. Stand up and Stop the enslavement within and without. 
Obviously, to do that, we first require to understand How we are enslaved, How we are in fact keeping ourselves and each-other enslaved in patterns of consciousness that perpetuate the ‘world as we know it’ and keep history repeating; never actually evolving but only mutating, while the power-structures and inequality within and of the world system are being maintained.

On Youtube I found countless Desteni interviews elaborating on various different points of our existence and showing how everything exists trapped within and as polarity designs. I was immediately able to see this design and how it in fact exists within everything that we do, participate in or know about in this world.
The systems of our world are set to create and perpetuate enslavement through the mental and emotional manipulation of the individual and at the same time through binding the individual to societal structures of inequality, thus creating also dependency and bipolar behaviors and experiences, as there always seems to be something to love and something to hate, something to fear and something to desire, something to fight for and something to fight against. And while we engage in these patterns the world system presents us with as ‘options’ in life, we never actually stand in complete oneness and equality with all that exists so that we may be able to realize and take absolute self-responsibility for this existence that is ourselves.

This is the main point in my process of self-realization that literally woke me up and assisted me in realizing that as long as I project blame and responsibility onto others or anything outside of myself for that matter, I am in fact abdicating my power, abdicating my response-ability, my ability in other words to actually make a difference and bring forth actual change – the change I want to see in the world.
Therefore it is through changing/directing self as who I am in every moment, realizing and taking responsibility for what I accept and allow through my participation, my presence, my actions or inaction, that I am able to start having an impact on my personal relationships in my reality, my world; thus slowly but surely start creating relationships in self-honesty, self-responsibility, mutual respect and intimate and direct  communication, making life something that is of life-support universally, something that is dignified and worth creating, worth living.

What I found through my participation with Desteni was people sharing themselves and their processes, and challenging themselves and each-other – challenging beliefs and personalities and mind sets as revealed through the writings we all shared. This is and has been an organic process of cross-referencing, debunking and discussing of all possible points of our existence, experience and ‘knowledge’ of the world, our reality, in the quest for the actual truth behind the veils of the mind’s programming and beyond the belief-systems we are indoctrinated with through the world systems.
Understanding and removing mind-control from the inside-out through self-honesty and practical common sense, seeing things for what they are in the context of the whole of existence from a perspective of cause and effect: allows us to see the manifested consequence of our existence and take self-responsibility.

Within this, we are able to start investigating the cause and effect of our own individual existence: 
What does my existence contribute to within and of this world? What do my acceptances and allowances give permission for to exist in the bigger picture? What am I supporting in the world when I am driven by fears and desires? What creates my fears and desires? What is the effect of my cause? What has been my ‘role’ in my relationships with my reality thus far, and what definitions have I accepted within this to merely ‘justify’ the ‘roles’ and ‘positions’ I have taken? Why have I been for instance ‘the victim’, or ‘the intellectual’, or ‘the seeker’, or ‘the bully’ or ‘the bullied’? And how did I then create beliefs and interpretations of ‘reality’ in self-righteousness and abdication of responsibility?

How are such ‘roles’ used and abused within the world system to maintain consumerism, consumption and the con of consciousness, within which all and every one is enslaved? What ‘role models’ are we presented with by the media and why? What drives our existence from the inside-out and how are such ‘driving forces’ created? And why?
At Desteni we see SELF in the context of the entirety of existence. How can we create a world without ‘gods’ and fake values – a world with no masters and no slaves? How can we bring forth an existence of self-willed equals, where power is no longer something to compete for, fight for, kill and die for. How can we self-realize power as life, and give it to ourselves and everyone else equally.
Understanding ourselves as creators of ourselves and collectively of this world – we begin to understand creation from the perspective of interconnectedness and interdependence as life.
No one is free until all life is free!

This point is a further crucial point at Desteni – a point that opened my eyes for the world and assisted me in understanding self-responsibility and practical equality and oneness.
Because this world system, this manifested existence that is our reality, is one of enslavement, we all tend to seek ‘freedom’, or ways to escape the ‘prison’ of the system. And the only way we ‘know’ how to do this, is through denial, suppression, separation, whereby we tend to disregard everything and everyone else in the quest for personal freedom.

What if, however, we look at self-freedom not from a perspective of self-interest, but instead from the perspective of life – as all as one as equal. What if we start realizing self-freedom from the inside-out, by debunking and diffusing the mental and emotional mind-control we have been subjected to and have accepted as ‘who we are’, and consequently start freeing our personal relationships and interactions from the consciousness patterns of control and manipulation; from the constant competition and power-games – to create freedom of life, for life, for all. Because how can anyone be really free within an existence of enslavement where one constantly has to watch one’s back, an existence where no trust, no support, no actual freedom of expression and expansion exists?
Within realizing self-freedom in the context of life, as life, we are able to embrace our interdependence within and as this reality we all share, and realize that our interdependence is rooted in and emerges from our INTERCONNECTEDNESS as life.

Therefore, interdependence in the context of life does not mean dependency as in the currently existent relationships of master-slave, strong-weak, superior-inferior, powerful-powerless. Such bipolar relation-patterns exist only in systems of inequality where ‘power’ is defined in separation of life and ‘justified’ through fear and concepts of scarcity. Such polarity constructs as we’ve accepted them to exist within and as ourselves, within and as this existence, is exactly what creates dependency. And the outflows of such dependency are seen in war, conflict, addictions, obsessions.
No – Interdependence as life actually implies equality and oneness and the acknowledgement of our interconnectedness as equal parts of LIFE. 
Freedom must be Freedom for All Life!

Within this, life can become One again: whole, integral, free. This oneness and equality, this freedom as life – the freedom to live, express and expand in full awareness and regard of all that is here as life – this must begin with/within each One individually: within how one lives and participates in every moment and how one relates and interacts in the context of one’s relationships.

This brings us back to the point of SELF-RESPONSIBILITY which seems to be the key in our process of self-realization as life.

STAND-UP for LIFE. YOU are the one you've been missing, YOU are the one you've been waiting for. So Stop waiting. Make a Stand.



Saturday, January 21, 2012

2012 DNA Activation - Sensational Promises for Delusional Minds







While many new age 'schools' and gurus promise full DNA activation, has anyone wondered what full DNA activation would practically imply?
People literally 'look forward' to things like that in the hope and desire that they'll bring them salvation and power, but within that they never consider the points of consequence and responsibility.

And while DNA activation is sold like a 'miraculous' savior pill, imagine this rather rational perspective:
Full DNA activation as in full awareness of all genetic information of all forefathers, their issues, their challenges, their points to be transcended. Full DNA activation as in bringing all subconscious and unconscious mind layers of self to the conscious presence here equal and one, to be faced, dealt with, directed.

Are you ready?


Responsibility is Key to Self-Empowerment - Power as Life. 


Stop the delusional mind ideas of power that we are brainwashed with, Stop buying into sensationalism and believing in promises, and discover actual self power as life within equality and oneness in this physical universe HERE.



Watch my Vlog on DNA Activation, Self Delusion and How we are blinded by the 'Light':




Watch out for the Freedom Blogs released by people standing-up all over the world; people waking up to the actuality of reality; people peeling off the veils of illusion that has been keeping us preoccupied, consumed, possessed, entrapped within a system of power-games, war, lies; people refusing to continue accepting and allowing an existence of separation, abuse and exploitation; people that are working on THE END of separation, THE END of abuse, THE END of exploitation. 

Check out the freedom movement at desteni.org and equalmoney.org and find the Freedom Blogs and further self-perfection support at the EQAFE:
Freedom Blogs -The birth of Practivism- Volume 1
Freedom Blogs -The Birth of Practivism -Volume 2 
Virus Free Mind
Check out the History of Desteni to see how it all came to be to how walk today as a group that is standing-up for life, as humanity in oneness and equality. 


2012 – Meet the Destonians and read/listen to the revelations, realizations and discussions shared by all of us throughout the various social media platforms.
Get Informed, Get Involved


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of the end of your own personal illusions. Learn how to debunk your own delusions with practical tools of self-support.


Let the year 2012 be the beginning of a new reality for life where WE as LIFE are the directive principle that determines the world we want to live in. 
Let’s get together and create a new reality for humanity collectively and individually – a reality that will support life in all ways, as we start to support ourselves and each-other in dignity and respect.
 
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